Repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell!”

June 24th, 2010

Target: U.S. Senate        
Sponsored by: Human Rights Campaign

The U.S. has never had this much momentum to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” — the discriminatory law that forces gays and lesbians to live a lie if they want to serve their country.

But there’s a big problem. As the Senate prepares for a make-or-break vote, Sen. John McCain and his friends in radical right-wing groups are putting enormous pressure on your senators to vote against equality.

McCain’s anti-gay vendetta is so desperate that he’s announced he will help block the Senate from repealing “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” and the right-wing Family Research Council is making outlandish and bogus claims that repealing “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” will increase sexual assault in the military and “undermine the religious liberties” of military chaplains.

We need your help to drown them out and show the Senate that a majority of Americans want this law off the books — once and for all.

Click here to sign message to your Senators…


Phila.: Boy Scouts can hate & still get free rent

June 23rd, 2010

Jury: Philly Can’t Evict Scouts For No-Gays Rule

June 23, 2010

A federal jury in Philadelphia ruled Wednesday that the city violated the Boy Scouts’ First Amendment rights by trying to evict the local chapter from a city-owned building because of its anti-gay policies.

Philadelphia officials argued that the Boy Scouts’ ban on gay members violates the city’s anti-discrimination laws, and ordered the local Scouts chapter to start paying $200,000 a year in rent on the city-owned office building it has occupied free for 80 years, or leave.

But the Scouts argued that was a violation of the group’s right to free association, a right the Supreme Court upheld in 2000, and which the Philadelphia jury backed.

“We do hope that eventually national [Boy Scouts of America] will change its minds. But at this point, the Cradle of Liberty [Council] is still obligated to follow its policy,” said foreman Merrill Arbogast, 40, of Reinholds, a trucker and former Eagle Scout.

The Boy Scouts say they expect to remain in their headquarters. They say they are willing to negotiate with the city to end a nearly seven-year-old legal standoff.

While the verdict gives weight to their request, the judge did not immediately issue the ban. Instead, he told jurors the city’s anti-discrimination policy is “principled” and said he hoped the two “honorable institutions” could work something out.

“The city defended this suit in a very principled way, in an area of the law that is highly nuanced — constitutional law — and highly unpredictable,” U.S. District Judge Ronald L. Buckwalter told jurors after the verdict.

In his view, he said, the city can still terminate the lease under the 1928 agreement, which was designed to give nonprofits free rent if they maintained the sites. However, the city must terminate the lease for a legally permissible reason, not because of an organization’s views.

“From now on, the Boy Scouts will be negotiating from a position of strength,” said lawyer Jason Gosselin, who represents the Scouts. “The city can’t come in and impose its views on what the Scouts ought to do.”

He said he hopes negotiations with the city will resume. The city is reviewing its legal options.

“While the good work of the Boy Scouts cannot be disputed, the city remains steadfast in its commitment to prevent its facilities from being used to disadvantage certain groups,” the city said in a statement.

The eight-day trial followed a decade of sometimes heated discussions stemming from a 2000 Supreme Court decision that said the Boy Scouts, as a private group, can exclude gays from membership. Some public and private donors around the country withdrew support.

In Philadelphia, the Cradle of Liberty Council tried to walk a fine line between appeasing the city, the United Way and other supporters and the Irving, Texas-based Boy Scouts of America.

In 2003, it enacted its own nondiscrimination policy but was forced to retrench when the Boy Scouts of America ordered it to conform with national rules. The chapter later enacted a statement that says it doesn’t tolerate illegal discrimination.

“We felt that they were between a rock and a hard place,” said Arbogast, the jury foreman.

There has been just one known case of a gay Scout’s being ousted from the Philadelphia chapter, although the city argued that many more may be scared off by the national policy.

Greg Lattera, 25, testified that Scouting meant the world to him as an inner-city child. He said he did not intend to become a flag bearer for gay rights when he spoke about being gay while wearing his Scout uniform in a TV news interview.

“We felt he was used, a pawn for certain groups’ agenda,” Arbogast said.

Joel Rose contributed to this report, which includes material from The Associated Press


Harpo TV seeking people

June 23rd, 2010

——- Forwarded message follows ——-
Date sent:    Wed, 23 Jun 2010 14:44:16 -0400
From:    Danielle Gervais <drbermanshowcasting@gmail.com>
Subject:    New Harpo TV Show Will Discuss Sexual Identity In Relationships With Dr. Laura Berman

To Whom It May Concern:

My name is Danielle Gervais. I’m a Casting Producer working on a new Harpo TV series featuring world-renowned Sex and Relationship expert, Dr. Laura Berman, who you may recognize from the Oprah Winfrey Show. I’m currently looking for both couples and singles who may need Dr. Berman’s help, whether they’re struggling with their sexual identity and it’s affecting their relationships or they’re in relationships and are struggling with intimacy for one reason or another, for example. The show will represent all sexual orientations, genders and ethnicities with the hope of relaying an important message – you’re not alone in your struggle with sexuality and intimacy. I’m hoping you might be able to pass along this unique opportunity throughout your community, whether through an email or a mention on your website. If you have any questions or concerns about the opportunity, please don’t hesitate to contact me at harpocasting.danielle@gmail.com.

Thank you in advance and I look forward to hearing from you!

Best,

Danielle Gervais
Sr. Casting Producer, Harpo Studios
harpocasting.danielle@gmail.com
646-678-4999
*

* * Do You Struggle With Your Sexual Identity? Are You In A Relationship With Someone Struggling With Their Sexual Identity?

Are you struggling with your sex life or relationship as a result? Dr. Laura Berman, a world-renowned Sex & Relationship Expert, has a brand new show on OWN…and she’s here to help you!

Do you question your attraction to the opposite sex or same sex? Are you unable to experience intimacy and a fulfilling sex life due to these feelings?

Do you have concerns about being intimate with a same sex partner?

Do you want to “come out” but are worried about what your family or partner will think?

Have you “come out” to your family or partner and feel like your life is now falling apart?

You’re not alone!!! Many are suffering just like you and Dr. Laura
Berman
can help!!!*

You’ve seen her segments on “The Oprah Winfrey Show” and “The Dr. Oz Show” and heard her great advice on “Oprah Radio” but now Dr. Berman has a brand new TV show, In The Bedroom With Dr. Laura Berman, fully dedicated to helping people achieve greater intimacy and connection, not to mention better sex!

Please be sure to include a description of your family and the issues you’re dealing with, along with a recent photo.  Individuals must be committed to making a change and be willing to appear and discuss their private lives on Television, if selected.

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Danielle Gervais
Sr. Casting Producer
Harpo Studios
DrBermanShowCasting@gmail.com
HarpoCasting.Danielle@gmail.com
(646) 678-4999

Obama Makes Father’s Day Nod
To 2-Dad Families

June 20th, 2010

June 18, 2010

by Frank James        National Public Radio

President Barack Obama’s second Father’s Day proclamation has a notable difference from his first. It openly acknowledges gay parents, noting that some kids have two dads.

An excerpt:

Nurturing families come in many forms, and children may be raised by a father and mother, a single father, two fathers, a stepfather, a grandfather, or caring guardian. We owe a special debt of gratitude for those parents serving in the United States Armed Forces and their families, whose sacrifices protect the lives and liberties of all American children. For the character they build, the doors they open, and the love they provide over our life times, all our fathers deserve our unending appreciation and admiration.

NOW, THEREFORE, I, BARACK OBAMA, President of the United States of America, in accordance with a joint resolution of the Congress approved April 24, 1972, as amended (36 U.S.C.109), do hereby proclaim June 20, 2010, as Father’s Day… IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand this eighteenth day of June, in the year of our Lord two thousand ten, and of the Independence of the United States of America the two hundred and thirty-fourth.

BARACK OBAMA

The 2010 Father’s Day proclamation is similar to this year’s Mother’s Day document.

The president’s first Father’s Day proclamation didn’t specifically mention gay families which, again, was similar to his 2009 Mother’s Day document which also lacked an overt mention.

As my NPR colleague Liz Halloran points out, this appears to be the first time presidential Mother’s Day and Father’s Day proclamations have so openly referred to gay parents.

City of Brotherly Love… not so much

June 18th, 2010

queerVOICE http://www.queertimes.net/06.18.10.html

Pride 2010 Epilogue
James Duggan

copyright 2010
This year for Pride I had the privilege of marching with Congressman Joe Sestak (D), the U.S. Senatorial candidate for Pennsylvania.  I must say he was a bundle of energy running from curb to curb, shaking as many hands a possible, and introducing himself to the crowd.  The impression was a good one–he was being well received by our community.

It does my heart good to know that I have been a supporter of Sestak even before he decided to run against Arlen Specter for the Democratic nomination.  In fact, QUEERtimes openly called Sestak to run against Specter.  Now it’s fun to watch all the Specter supporters in our community climbing on board and maneuvering to get close to Sestak.  No judgment here–just an observation.

Quite frankly, we need all the support possible to stop Pat Toomey (R) from getting elected.  Toomey, if you do not already know, is to the right of Rick Santorum!  Need I say more?

On another topic, Philly Pride should be applauded for the great work they did on the parade and festival this year.  Their hard work and good efforts shown through even as the rain began to fall. But it could not dampen (pardon, the pun) the spirit of the day.

The Philadelphia Police Department Civil Affairs Unit should be ashamed of itself for allowing the protesters to literally set up at the main entrance of the festival forcing every person attending the event to be subjected to their hatred.  These protesters, disguised as street preachers, spent the day telling us how evil we are and how, unless we repent of our homosexuality, we will be going to hell.

This group, lead by Michael Marcavage of Repent America, was permitted to set up their protest forum within 10 feet of the main entrance with the use of load speakers forcing their message upon all those who attended.

What is wrong with the Philadelphia Police Department Civil Affairs Unit that they would disrespect citizens and force protesters upon us?  For the life of me, I do not understand their position.

In most cities and municipalities in the state, the protesters are kept at a respectable distance from events.  A distance that does not hinder the free speech of any protester.  But here in Philadelphia, when it comes to the queer community, the police department smiles at us while at the same time they smack us in the back of the head.

Perhaps it’s time for new leadership in the Civil Affairs Unit because they have proved themselves to be anti-queer while the protesters are given more rights than us.

Perhaps it’s time to stop saying “don’t engage the protesters” and start standing up against them and a police department who seems freely to facilitate them.

We now have until October to make our voices heard.  In October, we will celebrate National Coming Out Day in Philadelphia. The police will surly set the protesters up inside our festival to the detriment of vendors and event attendees.  They will surely try to march the protesters through the festival while, at the same time, physically pushing people out of the way.  This should not be tolerated or allowed.

Organized demonstrations should be kept at the perimeter of any event and any attempt to parade them through such an event should be “peaceably” blocked.

Where are our community leaders on this issue?  Ignoring the protesters and not “engaging” them is not working. The Philadelphia Police Department and the city has proved that they could care less about our rights when it comes to our gatherings.

We can no longer stand by as our rights to peaceable gatherings without the disruption of protesters are ignored.

Shame on us for remaining silent on this issue, and shame on our community leaders who have been willing to turn a blind eye about this issue.

PFLAG Parent Study

June 13th, 2010

Dear PFLAG Chapter,

I am currently looking for additional PFLAG parent participants for the study I am conducting. To date, there have been close to 190 completed responses from parents of LGBT children across the country. Please be so kind to forward the information below to your chapter parents, if you have not done so already. I am happy to answer any questions about the study. Thank you so very much for your time and assistance.

I am an Assistant Professor within the College of Health Professions and Social Work at Temple University. I am conducting a study of parents of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender children to gain a greater understanding of the concerns parents may experience upon them learning about their children’s sexual orientations and gender identities.

I am asking for your assistance in obtaining  participants for this study by asking that you forward this request to individuals who meet the study criteria (above age 18 and identify as a heterosexual parent of a gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender child) in hopes of getting individuals to complete my anonymous online survey at:
http://questionpro.com/t/ACVM0ZHMi7

The survey takes about 20 to 30 minutes to complete, is anonymous and does not require identifying information. Additionally, if individuals prefer to complete the survey on paper, I will send copies to these individuals along with postage paid return envelopes. If someone has questions about this survey, please contact the principal investigator Cynthia Conley at (215) 204-2164.
Thank you greatly for your time and assistance.

Cynthia Conley, MSW, Ph.D.
Assistant Professor, Temple University
College of Health Professions & Social Work
1301 Cecil B. Moore, RA-535
Philadelphia, PA 19122

(215) 204-2164

Jennifer L. Carmody
MSW Candidate
Research Assistant for Cynthia Conley, Ph.D
Temple University, School of Social Work
College of Health Professions & Social Work

NYC Pride March

June 13th, 2010
June 27, 2010
12:00to22:00



2010 NYC Gay Pride Parade

When : June 27, 2010 beginning at noon.
Where : 52nd Street & Fifth Avenue to Christopher and Greenwich Streets.
Directions : IRT Lexington Avenue subway line to 51st Street or IRT West Side line to Christopher St./Sheridan Square.
2010 NYC Pridefest

When : June 27, 2010 11AM – 7PM
Where : Hudson Street between Abingdon Square & West 14th Street.
Directions : IND Eighth Avenue subway line to 14th Street.
2009 Dance on the Pier
When :   June 27, 2010 4PM – 10:30 PM, Fireworks2010 marks the 41st Anniversary of the Stonewall Riots in 1969, and a reminder that the Gay Pride Parade was not always such a festive event.

Where : Pier 54 and 13th Street at Hudson River Park.

Directions : IRT West Side subway line to Houston/Varick Street or IND Eighth Avenue line to West 4th Street.

Gay pride has been publicly celebrated throughout the world during the month of June since the early 1970’s.

Originating in New York City, the Gay Pride Parade is actually just one rainbow-colored event among many that goes on in NYC during Gay Pride Week.

Typically, the NYC Gay Pride Parade is held on the last day of the week in late June. Also held on the last day are the Gay Pride Festival, along with the annual Dance on the Pier following the parade wrapping up Gay Pride Week in a grand fireworks display.

NYC Gay Pride 2010

This year, watch for the festivities to kick off in New York earlier in the week with the annual rally at Bryant Park at 42nd Street and 6th Avenue, continuing through to the parade — with a march down Fifth Avenue on June 27, 2010 — beginning at 52nd Street and heading south to Christopher Street in Greenwich Village

The original purpose of the parade was to commemorate the riots at the Stonewall Inn, a popular gay and lesbian bar of the time that became the epicenter for violent protests against the unlawful treatment that gays and lesbians suffered at the hands of the New York City police department.

The Stonewall riots are now considered a major turning point in the Gay Rights movement, and the Gay Pride Parade still goes past the site every year to pay tribute to its significance.
There is also a moment of silence during the Gay Pride Parade, which was adopted in 1986 by organizers as a response to the AIDS crisis, which was at that time a particularly heated issue within the gay and lesbian community.
NYC Pride – The official site with details on the whole of Gay Pride Week festivities including times & locations, participant guide, volunteer opportunities, FAQ, photos & contact info.

Catholic LGBTQI Families meet in Chicago

June 13th, 2010
October 22, 2010toOctober 24, 2010

Joining Hands-Reaching Out.

Fortunate Families gathering of parents, Oct. 22-24!

Fortunate Families is hosting

Joining Hands-Reaching Out, a gathering of  Catholic parents who have LGBT daughters or sons

the weekend of Oct. 22-24, 2010
at Techny Towers Conference & Retreat Center
(a 1/2 hour cab ride from Chicago’s O’Hare Airport).

Meet other Catholic parents from around the country.
Listen to leaders of Catholic LGBT organizations:

  • Catholic Association for Lesbian and Gay Ministry president, Sheila Nelson
  • DignityUSA executive director, Marianne Duddy-Burke
  • New Ways Ministry executive director, Frank DeBernardo
  • Fortunate Families co-founder, Mary Ellen Lopata.

Learn what their organizations do and what they offer parents in support of their ministerial efforts. Discuss, discover, and discern ways we can work together to make our church and society more caring and more just for our LGBT loved ones. Hear how storytelling has made positive contributions in other Christian faith communities. Discuss how these
examples can make our storytelling more strategic, more energizing, and more effective. Share your questions and ideas about the BIG issues with other parents and Catholic LGBT leaders.

The brochure and registration form are available online.
Register early! Space is limited!
Join us for this historic 1st national gathering of Catholic parents!

Extensive news links

June 13th, 2010

We post news items which seem particularly relevant to our mission and purpose.

If you are interested in keeping aware of more news items, one of the best places to get an extensive review and links to both regional and national and worldwide related news items is from Philadelphia’s Queer Times enews:

http://www.queertimes.net/05.07.10.html

Phila. Boy Scouts want free lease
while violating discrimination ban

June 13th, 2010
Scouts case to go to jury trial
by Timothy Cwiek

A federal judge has cleared the way for a jury trial in the city’s Boy Scouts eviction case.

In a one-page ruling issued April 23, U.S. District Judge Ronald L. Buckwalter said there are at least 17 disputed facts in the case that require a trial to determine the truth.

Buckwalter did not identify the facts in question.

The city is seeking the immediate eviction of the Cradle of Liberty Council from a city-owned building at 231-251 N. 22nd St., because the council refuses to allow gay participants, nor will it pay fair-market rent.

The city contends that the organization is in violation of the city’s antibias law, which prohibits discrimination based on sexual orientation in accommodations.

The council, however, claims it’s being discriminated against simply for exercising its First Amendment right to exclude gays. The council wants to remain in the building permanently, without paying any rent or allowing gay participants.

Both sides wanted Buckwalter to dispose of the matter by issuing a summary-judgment ruling in their favor, thus obviating the need for a jury trial.

A jury trial will be requested instead of a bench trial, in which Buckwalter himself would decide the case, City Hall sources told PGN.

A jury trial could last several weeks. Jurors would be pooled from nine counties in the region: Burks, Bucks, Chester, Delaware, Lancaster, Lehigh, Montgomery, Northampton and Philadelphia.

In court filings, city attorneys said potential witnesses include Mayor Nutter, former Mayor John F. Street, City Councilmember Darrell L. Clarke and former Boy Scout Greg Lattera, who allegedly was ousted from the council for being gay.

Maura Kennedy, a spokesperson for Nutter, had no comment at press time about the mayor being named as a potential witness.

Other potential witnesses include Romulo Diaz, former city solicitor; Robert Nix III, former president of the Fairmount Park Commission; Pedro Ramos, former city managing director; Carrie Jacobs, executive director of The Attic Youth Center; Rebecca W. Rimel, president and CEO of Pew Charitable Trusts; Allison Buehler, education manager of Mazzoni Center; and Joyce Wilkerson, former chief of staff for Street.

Members of the LGBT Working Group identified as potential witnesses include David Adamany, John Alchin, the Hon. Dan Anders, Charles Bennison, Allen Black, Jim Bryson, Andrew Chirls, David Cohen, Abbe Fletman, Sue Levi Elwell, Steve Getzow, Fred Haas, Arthur Kaplan, Malcolm Lazin, Daniel Meyer, Chris Paliani, R. Duane Perry, Keith Robinson, Stacy Sobel, Mary Strasser, John Taylor, Sandra Thompson and Melina Waldo.

Jury selection will begin June 14.

In a related matter, Buckwalter rejected a request from the Scouts to exclude key evidence from the case, including Perry’s account of the council’s “short-lived” nondiscrimination policy covering sexual orientation in 2003.

But Buckwalter also said he may grant permission for the Scouts to take “additional discovery” on the evidence to be presented by Perry and other related witnesses before the trial begins.

Perry recently signed an affidavit indicating that the local Scouts council adopted an antibias policy covering gays in 2003, then rescinded the policy after pressure from the national Scouting organization.

The Scouts say they’re ready for a trial.

“We are prepared to move forward with a trial and look forward to resolving this matter,” the Scouts said in a prepared statement. “However, we remain open to a settlement if the terms meet the Scouts’ imperatives. We accept Judge Buckwalter’s decision, and note also that while the court permitted the city to include certain evidentiary items that it had not previously disclosed, it nevertheless denied the city’s motion for summary judgment.”

Thomas W. Ude, senior staff attorney with Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund, expressed “cautious optimism” that the city will prevail at trial.

“The issue is whether the Scouts can discriminate on the city’s dime,” Ude told PGN. “The Constitution doesn’t entitle anyone to do that, and we hope and anticipate that, at trial, it will be clear that the city should prevail.”

Amara S. Chaudhry, director of legal services for Mazzoni Center, said she was pleased the case is going to a jury.

“I’m optimistic that a fair cross-section of the community will agree with the city’s position. My experience with juries is that they’re always more fair than they’re given credit for.”

Timothy Cwiek can be reached at (215) 625-8501 ext. 208.

Read more: PGN-The Philadelphia Gay News. Phila gay news. philly news – Scouts case to go to jury trial

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« Steve in MD wrote on Friday, May 07 at 04:00 AM »

I wonder about the effect of the Supreme Ct in DC refusing to hear an appeal of a very similar case in San Diego the other day. The court left standing an appeals court ruling against the boy scouts.

I’m guessing that if the jury finds for the scouts, the next step is to go to the Feds, where the precedent appears to be in place – get the f… out, homophobic scouts of america.