Argentina OKs same-sex marriage & adoption

July 15th, 2010

Argentina becomes the first Latin American country to enact same-sex
marriage and same-sex adoption:

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=128536587

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/lt_argentina_gay_marriage

“Room for All” GLBTQ Christian Camp

July 12th, 2010
August 19, 2010toAugust 22, 2010

August 19 thru 22, 2010  (4 days, 3 nights)

For GLBT youth ages 15 to 17

Sponsored by the Reformed Church of Highland Park, NJ

For details and flyer, click here

For registration application form, click here

Current news summary

July 9th, 2010

Click here for current GLBT news summary.

Boston Ruling Targets Federal Gay Marriage Ban

July 9th, 2010

by THE ASSOCIATED PRESS
July 8, 2010

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=128393886

A U.S. judge in Boston has ruled that a federal gay marriage ban is unconstitutional because it interferes with the right of a state to define marriage.

U.S. District Judge Joseph Tauro on Thursday ruled in favor of gay couples’ rights in two separate challenges to the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act, known as DOMA.

The state had argued the law denied benefits such as Medicaid to gay married couples in Massachusetts, where same-sex unions have been legal since 2004.

Tauro agreed, and said the act forces Massachusetts to discriminate against its own citizens.

“The federal government, by enacting and enforcing DOMA, plainly encroaches upon the firmly entrenched province of the state, and in doing so, offends the Tenth Amendment. For that reason, the statute is invalid,” Tauro wrote in a ruling in a lawsuit filed by Attorney General Martha Coakley.

Ruling in a separate case filed by Gays & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, Tauro found that DOMA violates the equal protection clause of the U.S. Constitution.

“We’ve maintained from the very beginning that there was absolutely no basis for this law treating one class of married Massachusetts couples different from everybody else and the court has recognized that,” said Gary Buseck, GLAD’s legal director.

The Justice Department argued the federal government has the right to set eligibility requirements for federal benefits — including requiring that those benefits only go to couples in marriages between a man and a woman.

The law was enacted by Congress in 1996 when it appeared Hawaii would soon legalize same-sex marriage and opponents worried that other states would be forced to recognize such marriages. The lawsuit challenges only the portion of the law that prevents the federal government from affording pension and other benefits to same-sex couples.

Since then, five states and the District of Columbia have legalized gay marriage.

Read The Decision (PDF)

Are you, or do you know,
a same-sex couple raising children?

July 7th, 2010

Date sent:    Wed, 07 Jul 2010 17:41:25 -0400 (EDT)
From:    Garden State Equality <Goldstein@gardenstateequality.org>
Subject:    Are you, or do you know, a same-sex couple raising children?

Later this summer, Garden State Equality will be holding an event on the importance of marriage equality to children being raised by same-sex parents. If you’re a same-sex couple raising a child or children – or who have raised a child or children who might be of adult age now – and would like your family to participate, please email the following information to Families@GardenStateEquality.org:

Your name, your partner’s name, your child/children’s name(s) and age(s), your hometown and the best phone number at which to reach you.

Please put simply FAMILIES in the subject line of your email.

If you know a same-sex couple in New Jersey who are raising or have raised a child or children, please be so kind as to forward this email to them.

Thank you so much from all of us at Garden State Equality.

Garden State Equality is New Jersey’s largest civil rights organization.  Since Garden State Equalty’s founding in 2004, New Jersey has enacted 211 LGBT civil rights laws at the state, county and local levels.  That represents more LGBT laws enacted in less time than in any other state in American history.

July 7th, 2010
September 23, 2010
18:00to21:00

McCarter Theater in Princeton, NJ has special shows scheduled…

Guest Speaker – July 20th Chapter Meeting

July 6th, 2010
July 20, 2010
20:00to22:00

Dr. Michael LaSala to speak on his book, Coming Out, Coming Home,
at our monthly meeting on Tues., July 20

Mary Bugel, Program Chair

Through a quantitative, multicultural study of 65 gay and lesbian children and their parents, Michael LaSala outlines effective, practice-tested interventions for families in transition.

Dr. LaSala formulates the best approach for practitioners who hope to reestablish intimacy among family members and preserve family connections — as well as individual autonomy — well into a child’s maturation.

The above is taken from Dr. LaSala’s abstract of his new book.  While designed for professionals, his text, subtitled Helping Families Adjust to a Gay or Lesbian Child, is also valuable for lay people.

Dr. LaSala teaches at Rutgers and remembers us from a meeting he attended several years ago.  We welcome his return with new information for our members.

From the author

Michael LaSala

A few years ago, at your PFLAG chapter, I recruited participants for a study I was doing.

Finally, my book describing the findings has been released and I would love to come to one of your meetings to discuss the findings.

In addition, I am slated to do a reading at the Barnes and Nobles on 82nd and Broadway on September 15th and it would be great if some of your members could come.

You can find more information about me and the book at:

http://www.comingoutcominghome.com

Also, my blog

http://www.gaypsychotherapy.blogspot.com

Repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell!”

June 24th, 2010

Target: U.S. Senate        
Sponsored by: Human Rights Campaign

The U.S. has never had this much momentum to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” — the discriminatory law that forces gays and lesbians to live a lie if they want to serve their country.

But there’s a big problem. As the Senate prepares for a make-or-break vote, Sen. John McCain and his friends in radical right-wing groups are putting enormous pressure on your senators to vote against equality.

McCain’s anti-gay vendetta is so desperate that he’s announced he will help block the Senate from repealing “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” and the right-wing Family Research Council is making outlandish and bogus claims that repealing “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” will increase sexual assault in the military and “undermine the religious liberties” of military chaplains.

We need your help to drown them out and show the Senate that a majority of Americans want this law off the books — once and for all.

Click here to sign message to your Senators…


Phila.: Boy Scouts can hate & still get free rent

June 23rd, 2010

Jury: Philly Can’t Evict Scouts For No-Gays Rule

June 23, 2010

A federal jury in Philadelphia ruled Wednesday that the city violated the Boy Scouts’ First Amendment rights by trying to evict the local chapter from a city-owned building because of its anti-gay policies.

Philadelphia officials argued that the Boy Scouts’ ban on gay members violates the city’s anti-discrimination laws, and ordered the local Scouts chapter to start paying $200,000 a year in rent on the city-owned office building it has occupied free for 80 years, or leave.

But the Scouts argued that was a violation of the group’s right to free association, a right the Supreme Court upheld in 2000, and which the Philadelphia jury backed.

“We do hope that eventually national [Boy Scouts of America] will change its minds. But at this point, the Cradle of Liberty [Council] is still obligated to follow its policy,” said foreman Merrill Arbogast, 40, of Reinholds, a trucker and former Eagle Scout.

The Boy Scouts say they expect to remain in their headquarters. They say they are willing to negotiate with the city to end a nearly seven-year-old legal standoff.

While the verdict gives weight to their request, the judge did not immediately issue the ban. Instead, he told jurors the city’s anti-discrimination policy is “principled” and said he hoped the two “honorable institutions” could work something out.

“The city defended this suit in a very principled way, in an area of the law that is highly nuanced — constitutional law — and highly unpredictable,” U.S. District Judge Ronald L. Buckwalter told jurors after the verdict.

In his view, he said, the city can still terminate the lease under the 1928 agreement, which was designed to give nonprofits free rent if they maintained the sites. However, the city must terminate the lease for a legally permissible reason, not because of an organization’s views.

“From now on, the Boy Scouts will be negotiating from a position of strength,” said lawyer Jason Gosselin, who represents the Scouts. “The city can’t come in and impose its views on what the Scouts ought to do.”

He said he hopes negotiations with the city will resume. The city is reviewing its legal options.

“While the good work of the Boy Scouts cannot be disputed, the city remains steadfast in its commitment to prevent its facilities from being used to disadvantage certain groups,” the city said in a statement.

The eight-day trial followed a decade of sometimes heated discussions stemming from a 2000 Supreme Court decision that said the Boy Scouts, as a private group, can exclude gays from membership. Some public and private donors around the country withdrew support.

In Philadelphia, the Cradle of Liberty Council tried to walk a fine line between appeasing the city, the United Way and other supporters and the Irving, Texas-based Boy Scouts of America.

In 2003, it enacted its own nondiscrimination policy but was forced to retrench when the Boy Scouts of America ordered it to conform with national rules. The chapter later enacted a statement that says it doesn’t tolerate illegal discrimination.

“We felt that they were between a rock and a hard place,” said Arbogast, the jury foreman.

There has been just one known case of a gay Scout’s being ousted from the Philadelphia chapter, although the city argued that many more may be scared off by the national policy.

Greg Lattera, 25, testified that Scouting meant the world to him as an inner-city child. He said he did not intend to become a flag bearer for gay rights when he spoke about being gay while wearing his Scout uniform in a TV news interview.

“We felt he was used, a pawn for certain groups’ agenda,” Arbogast said.

Joel Rose contributed to this report, which includes material from The Associated Press


Harpo TV seeking people

June 23rd, 2010

——- Forwarded message follows ——-
Date sent:    Wed, 23 Jun 2010 14:44:16 -0400
From:    Danielle Gervais <drbermanshowcasting@gmail.com>
Subject:    New Harpo TV Show Will Discuss Sexual Identity In Relationships With Dr. Laura Berman

To Whom It May Concern:

My name is Danielle Gervais. I’m a Casting Producer working on a new Harpo TV series featuring world-renowned Sex and Relationship expert, Dr. Laura Berman, who you may recognize from the Oprah Winfrey Show. I’m currently looking for both couples and singles who may need Dr. Berman’s help, whether they’re struggling with their sexual identity and it’s affecting their relationships or they’re in relationships and are struggling with intimacy for one reason or another, for example. The show will represent all sexual orientations, genders and ethnicities with the hope of relaying an important message – you’re not alone in your struggle with sexuality and intimacy. I’m hoping you might be able to pass along this unique opportunity throughout your community, whether through an email or a mention on your website. If you have any questions or concerns about the opportunity, please don’t hesitate to contact me at harpocasting.danielle@gmail.com.

Thank you in advance and I look forward to hearing from you!

Best,

Danielle Gervais
Sr. Casting Producer, Harpo Studios
harpocasting.danielle@gmail.com
646-678-4999
*

* * Do You Struggle With Your Sexual Identity? Are You In A Relationship With Someone Struggling With Their Sexual Identity?

Are you struggling with your sex life or relationship as a result? Dr. Laura Berman, a world-renowned Sex & Relationship Expert, has a brand new show on OWN…and she’s here to help you!

Do you question your attraction to the opposite sex or same sex? Are you unable to experience intimacy and a fulfilling sex life due to these feelings?

Do you have concerns about being intimate with a same sex partner?

Do you want to “come out” but are worried about what your family or partner will think?

Have you “come out” to your family or partner and feel like your life is now falling apart?

You’re not alone!!! Many are suffering just like you and Dr. Laura
Berman
can help!!!*

You’ve seen her segments on “The Oprah Winfrey Show” and “The Dr. Oz Show” and heard her great advice on “Oprah Radio” but now Dr. Berman has a brand new TV show, In The Bedroom With Dr. Laura Berman, fully dedicated to helping people achieve greater intimacy and connection, not to mention better sex!

Please be sure to include a description of your family and the issues you’re dealing with, along with a recent photo.  Individuals must be committed to making a change and be willing to appear and discuss their private lives on Television, if selected.

*We look forward to hearing from YOU!*

* HarpoCasting.Danielle@gmail.com *

*www.oprah.com/ownshow/plug_form.html?plug_id=4303632*


Danielle Gervais
Sr. Casting Producer
Harpo Studios
DrBermanShowCasting@gmail.com
HarpoCasting.Danielle@gmail.com
(646) 678-4999